Taurus Men: OVERLY AGGRESSIVE WOMAN ...Am I doing it wrong?

Ohhh no, they do not like women like that at all. It's a turn-off. Taurus are very laid back and take things slow.. i'm sure he views her as crazy and a mess. Since you are NOT like that, he will surely see the good in you, especially since he's also having to deal with an overly agressive girl. I'm sure you are a breath of fresh air for him. Just keep things casual and talk to him on a regular basis without overdoing it. I wouldn't worry about the other girl.