When will people understand adoption is not about poor infertile couples its about the children?

im so sick of when young woman ask about giving up their baby for adoption seeing people say things like you can help an infertile couple , or ive been ttc for x amount of years. it makes me want to vomit.how did adoption become so crazy?it went from trying to find good homes for babies whose parents dont want or cant take care of them .to people being coerced into giving their babies up for some poor couple